Why does it even matter for us to empathize with others?
This past year I had hip surgery. I knew the recovery would take time and be difficult in some aspects, but until I was going through it, I didn’t realize how hard it would be. For two weeks I couldn’t drive and I never imagined how giving up that freedom could be so life altering. I hated having to rely on others for every move I wanted to make. There is so much freedom that comes with a car, and I now fully understand that.
Not only could I not drive for a couple weeks, but I also have a semi constant numbness and pain that I feel in the area around my surgery, and when I do certain movements there is a flash of searing pain. Now I have not taken pain meds since after the third day of surgery, but going through this experience has helped me understand how people could take those meds longer than they should. It would be so easy for someone to have this little bit of pain and want it solved through pills.
Since this experience, I can better empathize with others around me. What I have come to realize is that most of the time we only no a small part of someone’s story. Before we decide to judge or make a decision about someone, we really need to hear what is going on in their lives. Showing empathy will further endear you to those you are in a contact with and is a great way to build a foundation that could eventually lead to a great connection. If you want to build a strong relationship and show someone you really care, it starts with a massive dose of empathy and realizing that we are all in this together. If you truly want to succeed in business, this is one of those foundational things you need to work on.