Dad Life: Family

Sweet Sweet Balentines Day

Now I know this post is coming over a week after Valentines day has ended, but I just had to share my son’s cuteness, the experiences my wife created, and the fact that I may be just a teensy bit jealous of my son.
Jealous about what you ask? Well, let me break it down for you. Remember back in the day when nothing ever went wrong and we went to our favorite place in the world…school? Well on Valentines day I am sure that we all remember going to school thrilled because we knew that we were going to be getting awesome Valentines from all of the kids in class. Sometimes you struck gold, depending on the size of your class. And yes, I may have just a teensy bit of a longing for those much sweeter and simpler times where you gave your special valentines an extra heart sticker. Ahhhhh, true wuv.


Outside of my jealousy, I must say that I am really loving the stage of life that my son is in, and the fact that he is so into helping.  The Saturday before Valentines day Lindsay brought out the Pillsbury Dough Boy cupcake mix and icing and made some cupcakes with lovely pink frosting and red and white heart shaped sprinkles. I wish I could post a video, but I have the basic wordpress subscription. It was of Sam pressing the Dough Boy’s belly because I taught him how to do the “whooooo whooooo” and “heeeee heeeee” sound.  It was so much fun and he did such a great job helping bake the cupcakes and creating his Valentines for his class.

One of the last things we did was we shared some of his creations with our neighbors and brightened some folks’ day.  It really is just the best thing in the world living in such a great neighborhood with fantastic neighbors.  #Blessed.

Dad Life: Adventure

Creating Experiences

You know what makes life remarkable and memorable? Experiences.  I stinkin love a great experience.  It is a goal in my life to become halfway as good and intentional as my father- in-law.
One of the things he does so well is create experiences for his family.  This man is so passionate about it, he even bought a cabin for his family to use and create memories over the years.
Two memories come to mind as I think about creating memorable experiences.  The first memory happened around Christmas.  My wife’s side of the family got together, as all families do, over the holidays, and we had lots of fun eating great food and hanging out. Well, as it got darker outside, Phil, my father-in-law, told us that he had a surprise for the kids. Now the age range of kids goes from just a handful of months old all the way to high school, so some of them had special roles to play in this.  Phil took the kids outside and told them that he had worked together with an elf from the North Pole to create a little surprise for them, but they had to believe.  He got the kids to say “I believe” once… and nothing happened. He got them to say “I believe” twice… and nothing happened, but on the third time they all screamed “I BELIEVE!!!” and magically, Christmas lights turned on and revealed that the elf had flown all over the backyard leaving little treats everywhere that he landed. The treats ranged from cool light up bracelets, candy canes, to snowman poop, which was the crowd favorite.


The second experience comes more recently from a boy’s trip to the cabin. Now, I could literally talk about some amazing things God did that weekend in another blog post, and in fact, I most likely will, but for now I just want to talk about the experiences that were created to make it a memorable trip for Sam.
The cabin is in Ellijay, GA, but we needed to make a special trip to get a bird feeder for Pops’, what the grandkids call Phil, cabin. After we got the bird feeder we walked around the town and went in the little shops. The last shop in particular was the one of greatest importance though. That shop was Huck’s General Store. This is a kid’s dreamland. When you first walk in you have barrels, BARRELS I TELL YOU, of candy  of all kinds and from all decades, to the most amazing and cool toys you could think of. Well, as we walk to the back of the store we come to the section of Melissa and Doug toys, which if you don’t know what those are, let me do you a favor. Click on the name Melissa and Doug and go get you the best toys ever.

As Sam made his way to the back after seeing all the fantastical things in the shop, his eyes fell on one toy in particular, a wooden fishing pole with magnetic fish.  I mean how perfect is that?  Sam immediately latches onto the toy, won’t let go, and just goes on about “Fishing like Pops.”  Now I know Phil didn’t know if Sam would really pick out a toy, and a fishing one at that, but it was his plan all along to take Sam to this cool little store and he created the opportunity to do something special and fun by ending this trip with a fun gift.

These stories only make me want to step up my experience game and I hope that as the years  go on, I will grow in creating some great experiences for my family and for those in my life. I also know that creating magical experiences all starts with building a foundation of creating the opportunities to make them happen.